In honor of my awesomesauce friend Laura Elliott's 50th birthday (woot woot! Happy Birthday girlfriend! *throws confetti*), she is having a 50% off sale, EPIC giveaway, & bucket list feature on her blog. You can enter here for all of the fantastic books she is giving away, including an e-book of Imitation.
The concept of a bucket list has become a big deal in my
life over the past 18 months so I am SUPER excited about Laura’s idea to post
about this! For me, a bucket list is something I keep so that I don’t forget to
LIVE—something I’ve begun passionately pursuing: LIFE! Yes, I think real
Living (capital "L") is something you have to pursue. Otherwise, you get comfortable and lazy
and you stand/sit still until you find Life passing you by.
A while back, I went through a rough time and lost a baby.
(You can read about Tyler here.) He was only five days old went he went to
Heaven because of a bad heart. Losing him taught me a LOT about life, the
fragility of it, and how fleeting it really is. It taught me that you only get
to do this once and so what the hell was I waiting for? You don’t get a do-over
so if you procrastinate or always speak of “future plans” of all those things
you want to do, like “someday, I’ll _____," then someday never comes because
you never let it.
In other words: Do it now! You might only have today!
My bucket list is kept on my bedroom wall because it’s
important enough that I want to see my goals and desires every time I walk in.
I took a paint pen and wrote the things I want to do. Things like: Buy a
motorcycle (did that in December 2012!), take a ride in a hot air balloon, ride
an elephant (this one is my favorite!), go to a professional basketball game, ride The
Tail of the Dragon (it’s a motorcycle thing.), hit #1 on Amazon, travel
everywhere (I have a shelf in my room that I wrote all of my bucket list
destinations on.)
It’s funny. Once I wrote them, I saw them more as goals
instead of far-off future dreams. It made them more real and present and I
became more determined to experience them. Now, my favorite thing is to find
new experiences, to do something I’ve never done before as often as possible,
to live every day like it’s a bucket list kind of day.
And, being a writer, I found words that sum it up for me. I love this quote so much, I wrote it on the frame of my
bedroom mirror:
“Write something worth reading or do something worth writing every single day.” –Benjamin Franklin
“Write something worth reading or do something worth writing every single day.” –Benjamin Franklin
AWESOME post, Heather! You are so inspirational and make me want to live every day more fully! Thank you for that! ♥
ReplyDeleteThis is a great post!! And I love the idea of writing them on your wall! Good for you! I was wondering what the tat meant and I LOVE it<3 I love that book and didn't remember that word. I'm going to have to read it again. You are a true inspiration. One of mine was to publish my book (which you know I did, YAY) and another similar to yours, is to actually get a tattoo (you know bc I am 34 and time's a flyin' by ;) just trying to figure out what I want. :)
ReplyDeleteVery inspiring post. I think I'll create my own bucket list.
ReplyDeleteMy main thing is to do as much with my children as I can and make their childhood an enjoyable one.
ReplyDeleteinteresting! good to see this post!
ReplyDeleteFirst, I just started Imitation after seeking something new to feed the Muse (and oddly the cover said buy me now, and I'm so glad I did - love the concept so far.) I like it so much I thought I'd go see the blog, and having just spent last fall in the Middle East trying - with questionable success - to polish my Arabic, and then to see your tattoo...I can tell you all about the different ways Ka-Ta-Ba can be used to talk about this beautiful gift of writing.
ReplyDeleteMy dad likes to say that if you had more than one life, you'd have time to be bitter, angry, and slog your life away behind a tv, never getting anything done. But, since you don't, you just as well use the time you have to do the thing that makes you afraid, but has the potential to burn you into a better person. I like to think of tempering metal, and I've had enough of that to know that I want to do every thing - and I will.
My current bucket list is so long, that I'll just share my top three. Since I'm working on a dual graduate degree, as well as finishing my first novel, I already jet ski, ride a bullet bike, and have lived in a very different country, I just want to do all those thing - again - some place just as different. I'm thinking India, and since I'm about 8 years away from my baby graduating high school, I will do it.
Sorry to hear about the baby - I lost my first baby in a miscarriage, and have longed ever since for my Jesse. It hurts so much, I know, but good for you for finding a way to learn from it.
This is a great post!
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