tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4862057238849663717.post5851136726649517221..comments2023-10-20T13:21:47.054-04:00Comments on Romance Author: Happy Birthday, TylerHeather Hildenbrandhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10147243113156834985noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4862057238849663717.post-63163260937366992182013-12-22T15:25:41.027-05:002013-12-22T15:25:41.027-05:00Insightful Heather and heartbreaking. A parent sho...Insightful Heather and heartbreaking. A parent should never have to bury their child(ren). My condolences on your loss and my joy for you in the time you had with Tyler and how he has changed your outlook. I am definitely interested in Kiva and will have to look into that further to share with my kids. Keep up the good work! Valhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11723484710193300467noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4862057238849663717.post-31492694159658495212013-12-18T02:05:29.215-05:002013-12-18T02:05:29.215-05:00Heather, I can in a "mental state" under...Heather, I can in a "mental state" understand what you went through although I can't possibly imagine anything worst than losing your child. They say you see the most exciting and most happiness in the world when giving birth to a child your child, but they although say they're the most horrify and end of the world experience when losing a child. NOTED I'm not a mom or pregnant by that matters but I have a strong mother's sense because of who I am. However I am highly desired to be a mom, with some medical conditions I have some would think "Can you have a child, aren't you worry about it affecting your health?" The answer is simply Yes I can have a child", my immunologist have thought that perhaps when I do get pregnant that my body will reverse its process to what it's normally suppose to do and that very well could happen. But coming into adult age I've realizes some risks of having a child and or having a high-risk pregnancy. During this early year I faced something that I never thought I would have because it was never out of the ordinary or having usual/different signs/symptoms. I saw an OBGYN and he said that I have endomertosis but what I also learn was that it could be cause by a blood thinning med that I take regularly and I have to take it. For years we didn't know that was one of the averse effect especially when it came to a young women starting her cycle for the first time, we really still don't have answer to why it happens or what cause it to happen. I manage the dose and I'm managing the endomertosis in retrospect of eliminating some meds that are high profile saying "do not take if pregnant" or "adverse effects" <br />GAH! I know this is SUPER LONG! Now one of my closest friend who we both have the same condition, she is now pregnant and is sharing me with everything because we talked so much about being moms, she felt her little bebe kick for the first time and I can't wait to spoil that kid because that little baby will be her little miracle. Miracles to us is not widely used but we do use it when it seem appropriate, doctors could have told us to not have kids because of risks during pregnancy/before becoming pregnant but they didn't, they're learning as more and more of us ZEBRAS are having kids. :-) Kathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06290180606627938168noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4862057238849663717.post-38446848156375615292013-12-16T17:38:19.963-05:002013-12-16T17:38:19.963-05:00I can't imagine having to heal from a loss suc...I can't imagine having to heal from a loss such as yours. However, I am truly moved and inspired by how you have let the grace work through you. I love your message of living big, living loud, living in the moment, knowing we are all connected and can help each other do the same. I am blessed to know you. xoxojanethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12698806637465437371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4862057238849663717.post-5829561181975872652013-12-16T14:09:53.212-05:002013-12-16T14:09:53.212-05:00You are inspiring. Such a strong woman. I love you...You are inspiring. Such a strong woman. I love you! <3LucyLouhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07498117957474140512noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4862057238849663717.post-66898527558388204162013-12-16T13:40:48.029-05:002013-12-16T13:40:48.029-05:00Beautiful. <3Beautiful. <3Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06872373847253301822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4862057238849663717.post-13782642196276664452013-12-16T13:24:43.779-05:002013-12-16T13:24:43.779-05:00Such a touching and inspiring post! I know you did...Such a touching and inspiring post! I know you didn't set out to be an inspiration, but your light shines so brightly that you naturally are! I'm sure Tyler (and your other kids) is honored to have you as his mommy. Such a great way to honor his life by the way you have been living yours. Touches my heart so deeply!<br />Happy birthday, Tyler!<br />Much love to you! <br />♥ Ang<br />Angeline Kacehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04981277960573951634noreply@blogger.com